leefeng
2021/12/26 12:34 
本帖最後由 leefeng 於 2022/1/10 02:30 編輯

破壞你生活的有毒宗教指南：
1. 以你有一些無可救藥且無法治癒的錯誤為前提。
2. 相信你的人性是一種需要寬恕的冒犯，一種需要治癒的疾病，一種令人恐懼的怪物，以及一種需要壓制的邪惡。
3. 把希望寄託在來世，不要太執著於今生。
4. 不相信你內心深處的想法和感受。
5. 賦予他人權力和權威來決定你的信仰、價值觀、觀點、目標、願望和觀點。
6. 害怕、拒絕、譴責並遠離任何未經上述“他人”認可的人或事物。
7. 專注於行為矯正、檢查清單、該做什麼和不該做什麼、服從和遵守規則。
8. 放棄或扼殺你的需要、慾望、興趣和抱負，作為靈性成熟的標誌，並稱之為“向自我死”。
9. 確保生活中的每件事物和每個人都被貼上標籤並放入一個盒子裡。
10. 不相信科學、心理學和哲學是“世俗的”、“肉體的”或“世俗的”，並遠離它。
11. 將愛、團結、和諧、和平、美麗和合一的談論視為幼稚、愚蠢、理想主義或危險。
12.在“神聖”和“世俗”之間劃一條界限，並相應地劃分世界。
13、把人類分為“我們”和“他們”，遠離“他們”，遠觀“他們”。
14. 鎖定並扔掉你性慾的鑰匙，專注於神聖的事物。
15. 勇敢地投射和維護符合宗教團體期望的形象，並隱藏不符合的方式。
16. 不要問問題，不要動搖船，不要挑戰權威，不要為自己思考，不要傾聽內心的聲音……只要繼續做或相信，即使它違反了你內心深處的某些東西。
——吉姆·帕默


A Toxic Religious Guide to Sabotaging Your Life:
1. Begin with the premise that there is something hopelessly and incurably wrong with you.
2. Believe that your humanity is an offense needing forgiveness, an illness needing cured, a monster to be feared, and an evil to repress.
3. Pin your hopes on the afterlife, and don’t get too vested in the herelife.
4. Mistrust your innermost thoughts and feelings.
5. Give others the power and authority to determine what your beliefs, values, opinions, goals, desires, and views are.
6. Fear, reject, condemn, and close yourself off from anyone or anything that isn't approved by the above "others."
7. Focus on behavior modification, checklists, do’s and don’ts, obedience, and keeping the rules.
8. Give up or kill off your needs, desires, interests and aspirations as a sign of spiritual maturity and call it “dying to self.”
9. Make sure everything and everyone in life is assigned a label and put into a box.
10. Mistrust science, psychology and philosophy as “secular,” “carnal,” or “worldly,” and stay away from it.
11. Consider talk of love, unity, harmony, peace, beauty and oneness as childish, foolish, idealistic, or dangerous.
12. Draw a line between “sacred” and “secular” and divide up the world accordingly.
13. Separate humankind into “us” and “them,” and stay away from “them” and judge “them” from a distance.
14. Lock up and throw away the key to your sexuality and get busy focusing on something that is holy.
15. Put forth a valiant effort to project and maintain an image that lines up with the expectations of your religious community, and hide the ways you don’t.
16. Don’t ask questions, rock the boat, challenge authority, think for yourself, or listen to that voice inside… just keep doing or believing even if it violates something deep inside of you.
- Jim Palmer

https://www.reddit.com/r/OpenChristian/comments/ipilz4/a_religious_guide_to_sabotaging_your_life_by_jim/



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